It’s not common, but it does happen. Friendship turns long-term. It goes beyond usefulness and conveniences. Something deeper gets transferred between the two in a healthy manner.
No apparent need is fulfilled except for that deep inner sense of connection. It’s a God connection that’s hard to explain but a sure reality. Yet it needs to be cultivated and nurtured just like any other relationship.
Proverbs has words of a similar tone:

“Better a neighbor who is near than a brother who is far away.” (Proverbs 27:10c)

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We may overcome some limitations during childhood by making adjustments. Those adjustments continue even after the limitations have been overcome. Eventually, those adjustments become further limitations that hinder our performance even after the initial limitations are gone. 
Why do you do what you do? Why do you do it that way? Often, we simply don’t know. We need to challenge ourselves with new thinking about the same things we have been doing for many years. Don’t allow old habits caused by old limitations to become new limitations for the present.
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You wouldn’t even think of it. Just the thought is ludicrous. The man’s job is done as soon as he delivers the package. “Drop it here and go!”
When God was about to “dwell” in the midst of his people, he asked for a contribution only from those whose hearts moved them to contribute (Exodus 25:2b). The contribution would be used to construct a dwelling place for God to “move in” and dwell with the people. This was not a tax that was demanded from all the people. It was to be received only “from every man whose heart moved him.”
For many, God was just like a “delivery man” who brings a package. The people get what they needed and they let the person go since he is no longer needed. But God wanted to dwell with his people. That’s why the contribution was asked only if those whose hearts were moved.
When Jesus came he wanted a deeper relationship. He said “Whoever eats my flesh and drinks my blood abides in me and I in him” (John 6:56). For many, Jesus was like a delivery man who delivers things you order. But Jesus wants a deeper relationship.
Do you want him? Or, do you just want the package? Your choice.

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    Retaliation is the first thought in our minds when we think of this phrase. We think of getting back at others for what they’ve done to us. Our society has inserted its own meaning into it as well. But the original meaning and purpose were far from it.
    The people of Israel were coming out of 400 years of slavery. They were treated brutally without any human value. After several generations of this, imagine their condition. Consider how they would have treated each other. 
In such violent conditions and generations of brutal oppression, their behavior towards each other would not be pleasant. They would become angry, revengeful, and violent towards each other as well.
    This law was intended to limit punishment to a value equal to the crime. For example, someone who steals bread should not lose his hand as punishment. The punishment should be equivalent to a loaf of bread rather than something extreme. 

“But if there is harm, then you shall pay life for life, eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot, burn for burn, wound for wound, stripe for stripe.” (Exodus 21:23-25)

 

Inner healing is an important and major task in our lives. But it is important to build up some important things in our lives for our ongoing health. Healing is a one time event as well as a process.
Here are some instructions to follow:
The Lordship of Jesus must be central in our lives.

• Jesus must have the rightful place in every area of our lives.
• If we think, say or do things that cannot be shared with Jesus, you are on dangerous ground, giving Satan a foothold.

Continuously be filled with the Holy Spirit.

• We receive the Holy Spirit when we are saved, but we need a constant filling and anointing (Ephesians 5:18).

Read the word of God daily and allow it to minister to you.

• The Bible contains everything we need for godly living.
• Spend Time Alone With God daily.

Wear the armor of God at all times.

• This armor is for our defense and protection.
• During the day, if there are moments of failure, immediately confess, ask for forgiveness, and receive his forgiveness.
• Repair the armor. (Ephesians 6:10-18)

Be on guard against counter attacks.

• If we have taken ground from the enemy through healing and deliverance, be sure Satan will try to gain back that ground he has lost.

Be in good fellowship with others.

• You will benefit from the ministry of others.
• God will use you to minister to others.
• Take part in a caring small group every week.

Allow the Holy Spirit to produce the fruit of the Spirit in your life. (Galatians 5:22)

• Fruit takes time to grow, so be patient with yourself.
• Make sure to “work” the soil to allow for better growth of fruit.

Walk continuously in forgiveness.

• Look for opportunities to forgive people – not opportunities to be offended.
• Develop a mindset of forgiveness.

Praise God in all circumstances.

• Praise is vital for Christian living.
• Whatever happens in your life, continue praising God.

Keep the right company.

• Find people living a godly life.
• Keep relationship with such people.
• Until you are strong enough, cut relationships with those who are going in the wrong direction.

This post is a part of a series of posts regarding Inner Healing. Click here to access the Introduction to Inner Healing and the entire list of topics in the Inner Healing series.